Question 1:
When you think of online dating, which sentence feels closest to your truth?
A. “It feels risky — I don’t fully trust it.”
B. “It feels complicated — too many choices and rules.”
C. “It feels disappointing — I’ve already tried.”
D. “It feels uncomfortable — I’m not sure I fit in.”
Question 2:
What stops you most from approaching online dating with curiosity or fun?
A. Worry about safety or dishonesty
B. Not knowing what to do or where to start
C. Low expectations based on past experience
D. Self-consciousness about age, looks, or value
Question 3:
How do you currently view online dating?
A. Something I need to protect myself from
B. Something I need to figure out
C. Something that probably won’t work
D. Something meant for “other” women
Question 4:
If online dating were truly just a tool, what would still feel challenging?
A. Trusting the process and people
B. Using it correctly and efficiently
C. Staying motivated and positive
D. Showing up confidently as myself
Question 5:
What emotion shows up most when you imagine creating or updating a profile?
A. Anxiety
B. Confusion
C. Indifference or fatigue
D. Self-doubt
Question 6:
What would make online dating feel lighter for you?
A. Clear boundaries and safety strategies
B. Simple structure and guidance
C. A fresh mindset and new approach
D. Greater self-confidence and self-acceptance
Question 7:
What do you secretly wish online dating could be?
A. Calm and safe
B. Clear and easy
C. Hopeful and effective
D. Fun and affirming
The are 4 core blocks holding you back from mastering online dating with confidence.
This quiz will help you discover which one is primary currently blocking you to start and succeed in online dating with confidence and ease and what kind of support would help you most.
Your results:
Mostly A answers → Safety & Trust Block
Mostly B answers → Overwhelm Block
Mostly C answers → Discouragement Block
Mostly D answers → Confidence Block
🟡 Result 1: Safety & Trust Block
Your biggest block: Feeling unsure whether online dating is safe or trustworthy
What this means:
You’re open to partnership, but online dating doesn’t yet feel emotionally or practically safe. You may worry about honesty, intentions, or putting yourself at risk which makes it hard to relax or enjoy the process.
Reframe:
Online dating isn’t about trusting everyone. It’s about using the tool wisely. With the right boundaries and filters, it can actually give you more control than traditional dating.
How I help:
I will guide you to use online dating with strong boundaries, clarity, and emotional safety so you feel calm, grounded, and empowering instead of stressful. Any questions?
🟡 Result 2: Overwhelm Block
Your biggest block: Not knowing how to use online dating confidently
What this means:
The apps, profiles, messages, and “rules” feel confusing or time-consuming. You may think, “I don’t want to do this wrong” so you delay or avoid starting.
Reframe:
Online dating doesn’t have to be complicated. It works best when you treat it like a simple, intentional tool, not a full-time job.
How I help:
I will show you how to use online dating step by step, where to focus, what actually matters, and how to keep it light and efficient.Any questions?
🟡 Result 3: Discouragement Block
Your biggest block: Past experience took the fun out of it
What this means:
You’ve tried online dating before, and it felt disappointing, draining, or pointless. Deep down, you’re protecting yourself from more frustration.
Reframe:
Online dating didn’t fail you, the approach didn’t support you. When used intentionally, it can feel purposeful instead of exhausting.
How I help:
I will help you reset your mindset and strategy, so online dating becomes aligned, selective, and hopeful again, not something you dread. Any questions?
🟡 Result 4: Confidence Block
Your biggest block: Doubting whether online dating is “for you”
What this means:
You may question your age, appearance, or whether you truly belong in the online dating world. That self-doubt makes it hard to show up fully or enjoy the process.
Reframe:
After midlife, clarity, self-awareness, and authenticity are your greatest advantages and they are deeply attractive.
How I help:
I will support you in showing up confidently and authentically online, so you attract partners who value who they truly are, not who they think they should be. Any questions?